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Free tools
The invisible load, made visible.
Research shows mothers carry 71% of the household's cognitive labor. These tools put a shape and a number on yours, free, in minutes. New tools ship regularly, built from our own research.
The map
Mental Load Audit
Walk through 30 invisible items across six layers of family life and see exactly what you are carrying. About 3 minutes.
Map my loadThe handoff
Share the Load
Hand one whole domain to your partner, including the thinking. We draft the kind message and the official Transfer of Ownership deed.
Draft my handoffThe payslip
Mental Load Calculator
Thirteen quick questions, then your Invisible Work Payslip: your role title, your hours, and what the job pays on the open market. Amount paid: $0.00. Shareable.
Print my payslipBuilt from real data
Every tool here comes from what we learn about the mental load, in published research and in our own platform data, like the finding that 10 PM is the second busiest hour of a mother's day. When we learn something new, it becomes a tool.
Read the 10 PM Shift